This is a very hard concept to come to grips with.
The fact is that it's the other person perception of you that will make all the difference.
You may think your a nice person or a caring person, but if the people around you don't see you in that manner than chances are pretty good that your not.
This is a very hard pill to swallow.
Perception is Reality!
You need to be open to the thoughts and perceptions of those around you. And you must be willing to humble to change if it makes a difference to you.
I often listening to stories of some people who go to several different restaurants but they never get any good service. No matter where they go.
Now we're talking about completely different restaurants, different waitresses and waiters.
Now my question is... have all the restaurants conspired against this one person to provide horrible service.
Or if you ask the staff of all these places do you think the perception of this person would be one of a kind person.
My guess is probably not.
It's the number of people who have the same perception of you that you should pay attention too.
Remember Perception is Reality, we need to be humble enough and open to constructive advice. The key is humility.
Here's to Your LifetoSuccess,
John Clark
http://www.lifetosuccess.com
